Just want to run by the forum the present problem and see what people think? I am too close to her to really judge properly - this is the note I am thinking of giving to her doctor tomorrow if I make an appointment:
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Monique is now very very aggressive.
She shouts and screams at me to leave the house.
She does not know who I am.
She thinks I am the gardener and am stealing the money of her father.
It is becoming very difficult to cope with..
She threw my lovely new glass carafes and other items on the floor to break them because I locked the front door to stop her wandering the streets. In the end I had to unlock it and she went - the local cafe owners wife brought her back
Michael
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I had to let her out again so I spent an odd half hour tailing her through the streets of La Rochelle - shaking hands with neighbours who thought I was out of my tree or we were having a domestic - Following someone in the streets is harder I discovered than John le Carre makes out!!! Some of Monique's screams and shouts are pretty impressive.... I do suspect 'some' of them are intended to be but I did not fancy my chances if she started doing that in front of the milling tourists...
Went to have a look at the relevant fact sheet on drugs which said that antidepressants and Major tranquillisers were not something to rush into...
I stuffed a couple of TIAPRIDAL down her and an hour or so later she calmed down... I have quiet a large supply of these. Not quite sure what is my next move... Head out to the doctor tomorrow with the above note or give it a bit longer? The carer who does showers has had a hell of a time the last couple of visits - failed once and with help from me and my 'pathetic' acting succeeded but in the face of considerable aggression..
I know Connie has just been through something similar - but she's on hols... I do not want to do something precipitous but it is difficult to cope with but I am not absolutely certain I should blow this particular whistle --- or just use the TIAPRIDAL to make life easier.. for both of us...
Michael
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Monique is now very very aggressive.
She shouts and screams at me to leave the house.
She does not know who I am.
She thinks I am the gardener and am stealing the money of her father.
It is becoming very difficult to cope with..
She threw my lovely new glass carafes and other items on the floor to break them because I locked the front door to stop her wandering the streets. In the end I had to unlock it and she went - the local cafe owners wife brought her back
Michael
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I had to let her out again so I spent an odd half hour tailing her through the streets of La Rochelle - shaking hands with neighbours who thought I was out of my tree or we were having a domestic - Following someone in the streets is harder I discovered than John le Carre makes out!!! Some of Monique's screams and shouts are pretty impressive.... I do suspect 'some' of them are intended to be but I did not fancy my chances if she started doing that in front of the milling tourists...
Went to have a look at the relevant fact sheet on drugs which said that antidepressants and Major tranquillisers were not something to rush into...
I stuffed a couple of TIAPRIDAL down her and an hour or so later she calmed down... I have quiet a large supply of these. Not quite sure what is my next move... Head out to the doctor tomorrow with the above note or give it a bit longer? The carer who does showers has had a hell of a time the last couple of visits - failed once and with help from me and my 'pathetic' acting succeeded but in the face of considerable aggression..
I know Connie has just been through something similar - but she's on hols... I do not want to do something precipitous but it is difficult to cope with but I am not absolutely certain I should blow this particular whistle --- or just use the TIAPRIDAL to make life easier.. for both of us...
Michael