Good morning all. I really am beginning to feel I’m not the nice person my friends and I think I am .
My husband was diagnosed with vascular and Lewy body dementia 5years ago and yes, I believe the tablets have helped but in the terrors he started attacking himself and it could take an hour to re settle him. I then put him onto Ibuprofen 1 at night, my reasoning is he gets pain in his hands and arms, ? Arthritis! And we know the brain is inflamed so he had the 2 sets of inflammation . Result! No more terrifying night terrors, yes he still has times of waking thinking strange things but he himself is not so frightened. The Dr does not stop me doing this but, understandingly, isn’t prepared to prescribe it. My decision. Things at night are now much improved.
BUT where I really loose my rag , and I mean really, is that no matter what I suggest he does to make life easier he has an answer back, just like a child, it is non stop. His walking is very bad and to get him to use a stick around the house! ‘Why should I,I don’t have to l don’t need it’ the latest is that I have been given a raiser for the loo because he pulls himself up by using the towel rail which is now loose in the tile I have a suction grab handle and put that up ( doesn’t use it) now he wants the raiser removed as he doesn’t like it and ‘I’ve been using the towel rail for 10years so why should I stop now’!!
This and many many more instances are really getting me down and I’m not sure how to stop it, reasoning doesn’t work and sometimes I’m afraid of my reactions. Any ideas anybody please.
My husband was diagnosed with vascular and Lewy body dementia 5years ago and yes, I believe the tablets have helped but in the terrors he started attacking himself and it could take an hour to re settle him. I then put him onto Ibuprofen 1 at night, my reasoning is he gets pain in his hands and arms, ? Arthritis! And we know the brain is inflamed so he had the 2 sets of inflammation . Result! No more terrifying night terrors, yes he still has times of waking thinking strange things but he himself is not so frightened. The Dr does not stop me doing this but, understandingly, isn’t prepared to prescribe it. My decision. Things at night are now much improved.
BUT where I really loose my rag , and I mean really, is that no matter what I suggest he does to make life easier he has an answer back, just like a child, it is non stop. His walking is very bad and to get him to use a stick around the house! ‘Why should I,I don’t have to l don’t need it’ the latest is that I have been given a raiser for the loo because he pulls himself up by using the towel rail which is now loose in the tile I have a suction grab handle and put that up ( doesn’t use it) now he wants the raiser removed as he doesn’t like it and ‘I’ve been using the towel rail for 10years so why should I stop now’!!
This and many many more instances are really getting me down and I’m not sure how to stop it, reasoning doesn’t work and sometimes I’m afraid of my reactions. Any ideas anybody please.