Hi all,
Well it's just one thing after another lately!
Dad had said Mum needed new pants, well it seems that they had been disappearing.......he's found them! some were hidden under the bed and some were stuffed behind the washing basket.
It seems she's had some accidents, Dad thinks it's not that bad as she's aware enough to hide them, I however think he should do something about it now.
Poor Dad has no idea how to approach this, it's been really tough for him to cope with this find. It's clearly not happening all the time, but Dad has no idea what to say to Mum, he doesn't want to embarrass her. I suggested some sort of pads or something, he's not keen to put her in this position at the moment.
I appreciate that Dad doesn't want to upset Mum, so have no clue how to approach this. He was going to speak to the nurse, but Mum is always there and he'd prefer to ask her in confidence which he's not able to do,
As always any advice would be gratefully received,
Mandy
Well it's just one thing after another lately!
Dad had said Mum needed new pants, well it seems that they had been disappearing.......he's found them! some were hidden under the bed and some were stuffed behind the washing basket.
It seems she's had some accidents, Dad thinks it's not that bad as she's aware enough to hide them, I however think he should do something about it now.
Poor Dad has no idea how to approach this, it's been really tough for him to cope with this find. It's clearly not happening all the time, but Dad has no idea what to say to Mum, he doesn't want to embarrass her. I suggested some sort of pads or something, he's not keen to put her in this position at the moment.
I appreciate that Dad doesn't want to upset Mum, so have no clue how to approach this. He was going to speak to the nurse, but Mum is always there and he'd prefer to ask her in confidence which he's not able to do,
As always any advice would be gratefully received,
Mandy