My 47 yea r old husband moved out 2 years ago, we have 3 children age 12, 15 and 17.
We all find him increasingly forgetful, repeating questions, making up stories when ha has forgotten what really happened, getting lost in well known places, lost in time (has always been but increasingly) and changed personality, moody, more tearful, (has never been before) and his language is worsening and he needs to ask for words, especially in English which is not his native language.
His mother got AD at 60, his elder brother has the same symptoms but the family do not do anything just leave him alone. My husband has not been working for 4 years and is increasingly difficult to realte to, losing friends and spending a lot of time alone . When we meet he always comments he would like everything to be as it used to be. His children feel he treats them as if they were 10 years younger.'
He saw a neurologist a week ago, we went together to the GP who sent him there, and luckily he agreed.
Now we are so nervous he will not get a diagnosis, because realting to such a disturbed person kills us as long as he does not admit to having a problem but blaming everybody else even his own children. We need a diagnosis!!!
If he deos not get a diagnosi now, we will have to go to court where his children will tell the jury that he is totally incapable of caring for others and does not even know whether they are there or not, disappearing for hours without notice etc.
Do you think that these symptoms are enough for a neurologist to diagnose on, we are getting desperate.
Love,
Enilo:
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We all find him increasingly forgetful, repeating questions, making up stories when ha has forgotten what really happened, getting lost in well known places, lost in time (has always been but increasingly) and changed personality, moody, more tearful, (has never been before) and his language is worsening and he needs to ask for words, especially in English which is not his native language.
His mother got AD at 60, his elder brother has the same symptoms but the family do not do anything just leave him alone. My husband has not been working for 4 years and is increasingly difficult to realte to, losing friends and spending a lot of time alone . When we meet he always comments he would like everything to be as it used to be. His children feel he treats them as if they were 10 years younger.'
He saw a neurologist a week ago, we went together to the GP who sent him there, and luckily he agreed.
Now we are so nervous he will not get a diagnosis, because realting to such a disturbed person kills us as long as he does not admit to having a problem but blaming everybody else even his own children. We need a diagnosis!!!
If he deos not get a diagnosi now, we will have to go to court where his children will tell the jury that he is totally incapable of caring for others and does not even know whether they are there or not, disappearing for hours without notice etc.
Do you think that these symptoms are enough for a neurologist to diagnose on, we are getting desperate.
Love,
Enilo:
confused: