1. pamann

    pamann Registered User

    Oct 28, 2013
    2,635
    Kent
    We have had 5 funerals since Christmas, family and friends, today hubby's cousin has died in CH she had AD he is so upset, we do visit her every week as he is so close to her, should we go to yet another funeral, l am feeling so stressed, tomorrow he will forget about today, he is so confused, her husband has just been diagnosed with AD so feel we should go to support him, just need a big hug ♡♡♡
     
  2. Izzy

    Izzy Volunteer Moderator

    Aug 31, 2003
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    Dundee
    Oh Panamm what a hard situation for you. I'm so sorry you and your husband are facing this. Sending hugs.

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  3. WILLIAMR

    WILLIAMR Account Closed

    Apr 12, 2014
    1,078
    Hi pamann

    I am sorry about your situation.
    Mid 2003 to 2004 was a bad time for our wider family.
    My mother died and we had 14 other deaths.
    I suppose this will happen at some point as the wider family consists of over 250 people.

    William
     
  4. LYN T

    LYN T Registered User

    Aug 30, 2012
    6,962
    Brixham Devon
    I'm so sorry Pamann. So much sadness in such a small space of time.

    Love and hugs to you

    Lyn T XX
     
  5. pamann

    pamann Registered User

    Oct 28, 2013
    2,635
    Kent
    Thank you Izzy William and Lyn for your hugs and kind words, it means so much to me ♡♡♡
     
  6. WIFE

    WIFE Registered User

    May 23, 2014
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    So sorry to hear of yet another death Pamann - so many Funerals already this year and now one more. Can you decide nearer the day whether to go or not? Thinking of you both.
     
  7. Adcat

    Adcat Registered User

    Jun 15, 2014
    289
    London
    I am so sorry for your losses.
    I read somewhere that a contented strategy is to offer no new news and only good, positive communication.
    I took my Dad to a funeral recently of a chap he had known for years. While he behaved appropriately, he did ask me several times who had died and has not mentioned it since. As such, I think I may adopt this strategy as I think life will be less stressful.
    Take care x
     
  8. Jinx

    Jinx Registered User

    Mar 13, 2014
    2,333
    Pontypool
    Pamann so sorry to hear of all these sad losses in such a short space of time. Huge hug from me. x


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  9. Scarlett123

    Scarlett123 Registered User

    Apr 30, 2013
    3,802
    Essex
    Oh what a dreadful situation for you. Is there any way that someone could be with your hubby, whilst you go to the cousin's funeral on your own? As you've said that tomorrow your husband won't remember today, you'll know in your heart that you're representing both of you.

    And you say that the cousin's husband has also been diagnosed with AD? Oh sweetie, I'm sending you the biggest hug I can find. xxxx
     
  10. Lilac Blossom

    Lilac Blossom Registered User

    Oct 6, 2014
    534
    Scotland
    Sorry to hear this Pamann - so much sadness xx
     
  11. CollegeGirl

    CollegeGirl Registered User

    Jan 19, 2011
    9,525
    North East England
    Oh I'm so sorry to hear this, pamann. So much in such a short space of time, no wonder you are reeling. Much love, support and strength to you both xx
     
  12. Chuggalug

    Chuggalug Registered User

    Mar 24, 2014
    8,007
    Norfolk
    Humungous HUG for you, Pamann. I can't imagine how you must be feeling at the moment.
     
  13. pamann

    pamann Registered User

    Oct 28, 2013
    2,635
    Kent
    Thank you for all your support and advice, bless you Scarlett l will go with our eldest son youngest son will stay with his father, so much all at once for us, thinking of the January lads, bless you Lyn, Scarlett, and Wife ♡♡♡
     
  14. Scarlett123

    Scarlett123 Registered User

    Apr 30, 2013
    3,802
    Essex
    The January Lads will make sure that this February Lass has a front row seat, and will watch over her, with the greatest courtesy and care. xxx
     
  15. truth24

    truth24 Registered User

    Oct 13, 2013
    5,725
    North Somerset
    So sorry to hear of your grief, panamm. Sending you a big hug.

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  16. WILLIAMR

    WILLIAMR Account Closed

    Apr 12, 2014
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    I have just been notified of a sudden death in the wider family and will be going to the funeral soon.
    What is worrying is she is a year younger than me.


    William
     
  17. pamann

    pamann Registered User

    Oct 28, 2013
    2,635
    Kent
    Condolenses to you William, this is a bad time of the year, the youngest of our losses was 22yrs old so sad,♡♡♡
     
  18. LYN T

    LYN T Registered User

    Aug 30, 2012
    6,962
    Brixham Devon
    Of course all deaths are sad Pamann-but 22 yrs old-that is tragic.

    I'm so sorry

    Lyn T XX
     
  19. WILLIAMR

    WILLIAMR Account Closed

    Apr 12, 2014
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    I lost my brother when he was 17 and my wife lost her sister when she was 16.
    I met my wife when we were 11. We were not married at the time of the deaths but I think it was generally expected to happen so it was really the same family for practical purposes.

    William
     
  20. Scarlett123

    Scarlett123 Registered User

    Apr 30, 2013
    3,802
    Essex
    What tragedy you have had, William. xxx
     

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