Hi Dave long time no see on TP
Nice to see you , to see you nice lol as that is what mum told someone when they said nice to see you to my mother
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Think that was from Tommy cooper .
My mum hates me touching her feet, because she has diabetic so is scared of getting an infection, I would cut her toenails she will not let me.
I feel its very therapeutic massaging feet and toes. My daughter loves me massaging there feet, but mum not having it lol. I have it done to me in the past it is lovely so relaxing .something to do with unblocking massaging nerves in the sole of the feet travelling up to the brain relishing feel good feeling. I may not have explained to right so it is something alone those lines. One of my daughter is taking beauty therapy at collage pedicure I think its called
Anyway ( lol
I do go on
) yes its to do with lack of moment, circulation doctor told me when I had an appointment for me to see him , that’s why its good that mum go to day centre 3 days a week Its amazing how mum feel ankle, has gone down back to normal .
Mum said that the manger keep asking mum to go out in the garden , but she did not want to go on her own, mum put it down to that she was not allowed to lay down in bed during the day, had to sit in chair all day till bed time .where at home with me mum lays in bed when she wants, gets up sit in chair when she wants.
My mother also told me that there was another woman that did not want to walk a lot as her legs where really swollen up to her knees. The manger keep kicking her on the legs to get up to walk , now I take this very light hearted ,may be he was lightly taping her on the leg with his foot . I said this to mum, mum said yes but I still did not like him doing that to the lady. Does make you wonder?? its only a small care home 2 houses knock in to one about 20 people in all, I not sure to tell social worker, but I am sure not letting mum go there on next respite . Who knows what go on behind close doors, also it be mum words angina his. I can tell you my mother has never complained about any other respite home she been in. It has been in the back of my mind for a while, so hope you all do not mind me sharing it with you all.
When mum go to next respite how ,what am I going to say to social worker if she says mum has to go to that respite . as I do not want to to go there anymore