After reading some of your threads about the way some of your loved ones are very distressed some in care homes which i dont know a lot about.I am reading a book called and still the music plays stories of people with dementia by graham stokes its an amazing read it explains a lot why people with dementia get so stressed out there always seems to be a reason for it all i dont know if anybody has read it but it does make you think yes thats why its happening.To all you carers and ex carers who are going through really bad times my thought and prays are with you all.