If he is beginning to have trouble getting food down then you could ask your GP about ensure drinks (or similar) which are, I believe, available on prescription.
I hope it will keep him happy for a while.
This morning after the usual late start and constant reminders to drink and eat, followed by sitting doing nothing, I suddenly remembered a tip I had read on Talking Point. So I turned on the TV which I rarely have done before at this time of day, and found children’s TV and he is sitting happily laughing at the pre-school children’s programmes. I hope it will keep him happy for a while.
I do hope it works. The CBeebies held his attention and he ate all his lunch while watching it, not without lots of prompting but he did finish it without complaining. I shall try it again and also see if I can find Laurel and Hardy.Hi.. What a great idea.. Most things don't hold my OH attention.. Think I'll try Laural and Hardy.. He used to love them.. Anything worth a try xx
Take great care of yourself, xxx
You too Alice. I'm sorry your husband is still in hospital and hope there will soon be a way to help him and you. x
The doctor called this morning and we had a very constructive conversation, when we discussed his weight loss/appetite loss/exhaustion etc. and she discussed it thoroughly, understood and gave me good advice not silly stuff. I am doing alright and she is prescribing a vitamin/mineral/protein supplement as well as other things. I think that looking after someone with dementia you need this sort of validation every now and then to know that you are doing all you can in the face of this inexorable decline which is in the person’s best interests. I think she was validating my view that up to a point there is nothing more you can do, awful to accept when everything in modern culture strives for a cure or at least some helpful treatment. Unless there is organic disease, there is very little you can do other than palliative care and have to accept that.
Thanks for another tip, both useful. I think the Movicol from yesterday has started to work after the suppository unblocked him. It’s certainly the correct way to do it, and now I need to find out how often to give him a dose. It’s quite safe so one a day should work.Beetroot works wonders, if he likes it.