A minor miracle has happened....it's been 2 weeks since I stopped sending my husband to day care and he is now calm, settled and happy at home. There are no more traumas, very little confusion and no distress. His memory is still very poor of course but we are coping well. He had his memory test last Thursday and scored 25. He isn't being put on any drugs and I am able to leave him for short periods now, we also have someone to come in twice a week to give me a break without worries about his safety. His confidence has returned a little and his mobility is a lot better, though not brilliant. We will shortly be meeting our CPN and things are progressing well. I never would have believed that there could be such a difference if I had not seen it with my own eyes! I realise that this could all change at some point, but right now I am making the most of it. I'm still reading the posts on here and gaining a lot from them, thanks to all of you for being there.