I'd just like to say how really wonderful people on here are. My OH was diagnosed 6 years ago and has been more or less fine, but is now going downhill quite fast. So I have been lurking on here, and am endlessly struck by how kind and helpful people are. They are also brave, though I don't know if 'Brave' is the right word for surviving in a situation which cannot be made better. Just living a day at a time seems to be what's required. Even though I am quiet and don't join in a lot I have found posts on here so very helpful, and I wanted to say Thank You.