Hello @Vixi
A warm welcome to DTP
I hope reading these posts and other threads is helping you
I appreciate that you want what's best for your mum .... but you can't give up your life for her
Let her GP know all your concerns and make it clear that you cannot be in the UK so she will not have your in person support but you will do all you can for her ... same with her Local Authority Adult Services ... it may be that your mum refuses home care etc but the LA have the duty of care to meet her needs, so contacting them for an assessment of care needs will at least flag up to them that she is vulnerable
Do be sure to help her arrange LPAs as this will make it easier for you to support her
You may find something useful here:
Do keep posting ... maybe start a thread of your own?
A warm welcome to DTP
I hope reading these posts and other threads is helping you
I appreciate that you want what's best for your mum .... but you can't give up your life for her
Let her GP know all your concerns and make it clear that you cannot be in the UK so she will not have your in person support but you will do all you can for her ... same with her Local Authority Adult Services ... it may be that your mum refuses home care etc but the LA have the duty of care to meet her needs, so contacting them for an assessment of care needs will at least flag up to them that she is vulnerable
Do be sure to help her arrange LPAs as this will make it easier for you to support her
You may find something useful here:
Find support near you
Use our dementia directory to find local support services for people with dementia and their carers in England, Wales and Northern Ireland.
www.alzheimers.org.uk
Do keep posting ... maybe start a thread of your own?