Hi all, it's been some time since I put anything on here. I have been undergoing cancer treatment which has resulted in my husband going down 3 points on his last mms test. I have noticed a big change in him since I came out of hospital.
I don't know if it's me that is a bit stressed out but I don't seem to have as much patience as I did have and I feel so guilty afterwards.
While I was out shopping today I came home cold and tired to find the safety catch on the door so I couldn't get in. I walked round to the back gate which he keeps locked as I knew he would be in the shed, he had a loud machine on so couldn't hear me shouting, I tried ringing his mobile but he didn't have it with him. After what seemed to be an age he heard me, this isn't the first time he has put the catch on the door and locked me out.
Anyway, I have just found out that he has left the electric heater on in the shed so his 'tools don't get too cold', he has
gone off in a huff because I said we can't afford to do this. Sometimes I feel unreasonable, I hate all the dissagreements, but at the same time I feel lately that I don't know how I am going to cope with him, everything lately is a battle. Should I just keep quiet?
Sorry for sounding off,
Dee
I don't know if it's me that is a bit stressed out but I don't seem to have as much patience as I did have and I feel so guilty afterwards.
While I was out shopping today I came home cold and tired to find the safety catch on the door so I couldn't get in. I walked round to the back gate which he keeps locked as I knew he would be in the shed, he had a loud machine on so couldn't hear me shouting, I tried ringing his mobile but he didn't have it with him. After what seemed to be an age he heard me, this isn't the first time he has put the catch on the door and locked me out.
Anyway, I have just found out that he has left the electric heater on in the shed so his 'tools don't get too cold', he has
gone off in a huff because I said we can't afford to do this. Sometimes I feel unreasonable, I hate all the dissagreements, but at the same time I feel lately that I don't know how I am going to cope with him, everything lately is a battle. Should I just keep quiet?
Sorry for sounding off,
Dee