I used this site many times when I was caring for my late Dad. It will be 2 years on 12/06/11 since Dad pased, seems a long time ago and in the main I am getting on with life.
I sometimes wish I was allowed one telephone call to the next world to tell Dad how much we loved and cared about him, I am sure he didnt know how much we did for him out of love, and I fear that due to the illness he passed feeling alone and abandoned (which he wasnt).
He had an awful ending due to poor Health Care.
I will never forget those last 3 months of his life.
I eventually wrote an A4 page of complaint/recommendations to the Trust concerned, made me feel a little better.
Think its the brutality of the disease that's so hard to deal with and the subsequent stealing of our loved ones minds.
With my Mum (god bless her) I am quite able to accept her passing (I miss her loads), but Dad's never. don't think I will ever find peace about it.
Best Wishes to you all.
Prague09
I sometimes wish I was allowed one telephone call to the next world to tell Dad how much we loved and cared about him, I am sure he didnt know how much we did for him out of love, and I fear that due to the illness he passed feeling alone and abandoned (which he wasnt).
He had an awful ending due to poor Health Care.
I will never forget those last 3 months of his life.
I eventually wrote an A4 page of complaint/recommendations to the Trust concerned, made me feel a little better.
Think its the brutality of the disease that's so hard to deal with and the subsequent stealing of our loved ones minds.
With my Mum (god bless her) I am quite able to accept her passing (I miss her loads), but Dad's never. don't think I will ever find peace about it.
Best Wishes to you all.
Prague09