I have looked after my mother since 2005, when my father passed away. Mum didn't have dementia then. Only a physical disability. I was signed on as third party to her account. She always told me she would take care of me financially. I had her permission to use the account. We were a family unit. In 2014 I could no longer look after mum. She has Alzheimers and became violent and mean with it. She went into care. A beautiful 5 star nursing dementia home. Now she has made allegations against me and adult social services are demanding bank statements. Is the verbal agreement made back in 2005 not in anyway valid. Am I really considered to be a thief?