Having just joined your site it seems that all is love and light.. sadly I am not in this catagory. Some of you may have read I lost my own home to save my mothers. Now I face the prospect of being homelss or looking after a mother who has been nothing but nasty most of my life. My brother doesn't want to know.. I am self employed and finding work hard to get whilst looking after my mother. The attendence allowence works out at about £1-2 per hour... who would get up at 3.00am, wipe up urine et al, put up with the nastiness all for that. I have a daughter whose life has been made a misery and a son who could no longer cope at home with her... I cannot cope much longer but sadly all anyone talks about is my mums state of health. She has had her life .. but is now ruining the lives of others.