The last few weeks I have noticed a decline in my OH, his memory and not understanding what I people are saying. He cannot keep up with newsreaders as they speak fast and he can’t keep up with the subtitles. His hearing test the other day showed a significant loss in his hearing and now we have to buy new ones. He has been really agitated and aggressive with me and an elderly relative. He had me by throat and called me a c—t and said I don’t do anything for him and don’t care about him. I have had 2 weeks off work from my 3 day a week job which is only term time and I have done things with him taken him out most days whatever I do it’s wrong. I called the GP who said ring memory clinic I haven’t managed to get through to anyone yet! I feel so alone with no one to turn to. I’ve had enough of being abused both physically and mentally. Just had to talk to someone. He went to a day centre, hated it and won’t go anymore. He says he hates being alone but when I am off work he is nasty to me!