I usually have my mother over (she is currently in a care home) each week to get her hair done.
This is usually in the mornings, however, last week she was busy in the morning so came for the afternoon. At about 3.30-4pm she suddenly became very vague , went floppy and would not open her eyes. She was moaning but responded somewhat when I spoke to her.
We took her back to the carehome, where they said that she often does this in the afternoon evening and it was all part of the dementia. My question is has anyone else experienced this? My mum is usually quite alert and is still very upset that I have put her into care but is resigned to the fact, she says she does not like the home and although I have tried I cannot get her moved to another home as they are not secure (as the one she is in) and although I believe she would not wander off the home say that she does try to get out and is usually rounding up the other residents to go with her. I have not witnessed this and mum seems very cognitive whenever I speak to her she denies all of this and is quite surprised that someone thinks she does this.
This is usually in the mornings, however, last week she was busy in the morning so came for the afternoon. At about 3.30-4pm she suddenly became very vague , went floppy and would not open her eyes. She was moaning but responded somewhat when I spoke to her.
We took her back to the carehome, where they said that she often does this in the afternoon evening and it was all part of the dementia. My question is has anyone else experienced this? My mum is usually quite alert and is still very upset that I have put her into care but is resigned to the fact, she says she does not like the home and although I have tried I cannot get her moved to another home as they are not secure (as the one she is in) and although I believe she would not wander off the home say that she does try to get out and is usually rounding up the other residents to go with her. I have not witnessed this and mum seems very cognitive whenever I speak to her she denies all of this and is quite surprised that someone thinks she does this.