A lovely diversion...
Thankyou...
Now I've had a chance to read through your posts a rock and a hard place is the phrase that springs to mind.
Reflecting back on this last week I can recognise that I've been experiencing the "rollercoaster" of emotions which you've all experienced too.
Eric's review meeting thismorning has been cancelled, the SW is off sick. It's ok, it will be rearranged for another time.
I have come to a "sort of" decision. The next 2 respites are booked. I'm going to ask if they can be extended to 10 days each instead of a week.
The second one is in June. Just now I can't see beyond that.
Our situation is changing all the time as Eric's condition fluctuates.
I'll use the time between now and June to explore the possibilities of full time care and a suitable CH. And the financial implications..as I would have to find work. Meanwhile I do know that if the going gets too tough I can ask for emergency respite.
While acknowledging I no longer want to care I can see that part of this was probably a strong reaction to a) experiencing a bit of freedom and normality and b) Eric's behaviour on return from Respite.
Your comments and support have been invaluable in helping me to sort this out. Thank goodness for TP and all who sail in her..
Love xx