Hi gigi,
The key word that jumps out at me is resentment. I find when resentment creeps in it is time for change. I can't speak from experience in terms of a partner but I did leave a job I loved because I had grown to resent my boss so much over a period of years. It was the right decision for me although it caused enough heartache at the time.
You know you have to make the decision yourself but please note that not one of us on TP has said that you should keep things as they are.
Personally I would not look after my own husband in the situation you describe and I love him more than anything. I would still love him but strongly feel that it would be too much for me to cope with emotionally and probably physically too.
Big hugs and hope that you get the time and space you need to work through your thoughts and come to a plan of action. xx
The key word that jumps out at me is resentment. I find when resentment creeps in it is time for change. I can't speak from experience in terms of a partner but I did leave a job I loved because I had grown to resent my boss so much over a period of years. It was the right decision for me although it caused enough heartache at the time.
You know you have to make the decision yourself but please note that not one of us on TP has said that you should keep things as they are.
Personally I would not look after my own husband in the situation you describe and I love him more than anything. I would still love him but strongly feel that it would be too much for me to cope with emotionally and probably physically too.
Big hugs and hope that you get the time and space you need to work through your thoughts and come to a plan of action. xx