Eric did not know me when I went to pick him up.
He asked who I was and I told him my name....he said he knew the name but I wasn't her..he didn't recognise my face. He looked old and troubled and tired, and didn't smile. But a carer came in and his face lit up.
The home told me he had been "fine" ..no problems, eaten well and socialised.
But he was very confused and seemed reluctant to leave with me. He asked if the girls were at home waiting for us..his daughters, and was very angry when I told him they were in Australia..(big mistake on my part..) I think he thought I was his first wife.
His questioning continued in the same vein all evening. I suppose in his mind he was trying to make sense of things. Eventually we must have both fallen asleep in the lounge..I was woken up by the carer tapping me on the shoulder! I hadn't heard the doorbell.
But we both slept well...until about 6 when I heard a crash and found Eric on the bedroom floor.
He's ok, and I got him up using the Elk.
I feel there's a shift in his attitude towards me, can't put my finger on it. It may just take a bit of time for him to settle back at home.
He's still very confused thismorning.
Love xx
He asked who I was and I told him my name....he said he knew the name but I wasn't her..he didn't recognise my face. He looked old and troubled and tired, and didn't smile. But a carer came in and his face lit up.
The home told me he had been "fine" ..no problems, eaten well and socialised.
But he was very confused and seemed reluctant to leave with me. He asked if the girls were at home waiting for us..his daughters, and was very angry when I told him they were in Australia..(big mistake on my part..) I think he thought I was his first wife.
His questioning continued in the same vein all evening. I suppose in his mind he was trying to make sense of things. Eventually we must have both fallen asleep in the lounge..I was woken up by the carer tapping me on the shoulder! I hadn't heard the doorbell.
But we both slept well...until about 6 when I heard a crash and found Eric on the bedroom floor.
He's ok, and I got him up using the Elk.
I feel there's a shift in his attitude towards me, can't put my finger on it. It may just take a bit of time for him to settle back at home.
He's still very confused thismorning.
Love xx