Morning everyone, please could someone help and advise me. My mum has a diagnosis of alzheimers. Two years ago now which she refused to accept. She was offered medication and because she still had capacity at the time of her diagnosis she refused. Two years on, understandably her dementia is in quite a rapid decline. I am effectively her only relative who is helping to organise things but because of a strained up bringing I am not her carer as such. I liase with Social services and her G.P and have managed to convince her over time to accept carers three times a day. much to her disapproval. Anyway thats bit of history. The advice that I am looking for is that I now believe she is in need of more full time round the clock monitoring and think she may be ready for a care home.
Her personel hygiene is non-excsistent now. She is very verbally aggressive. When she is not being aggressive is non-compliant and doesn't engage. She has been found outside her flat on occasions by her carer after leaving the door open. She sometimes refuses to accept food from the carers. I believe that staying at home now poses a risk. She has a mental health assessment in a few weeks and I wonder if anybody had any advice as to what I can say to the doctors to aid my request. I don't want have to wait until she is wandering alone at night and the police find her before something is done.
I hope someone can help as I believe the professionals are keen to keep her in her own hoe whereas I think now she at risk being at home. She also has access to gas still in her flat.
Please help
Roz S
Her personel hygiene is non-excsistent now. She is very verbally aggressive. When she is not being aggressive is non-compliant and doesn't engage. She has been found outside her flat on occasions by her carer after leaving the door open. She sometimes refuses to accept food from the carers. I believe that staying at home now poses a risk. She has a mental health assessment in a few weeks and I wonder if anybody had any advice as to what I can say to the doctors to aid my request. I don't want have to wait until she is wandering alone at night and the police find her before something is done.
I hope someone can help as I believe the professionals are keen to keep her in her own hoe whereas I think now she at risk being at home. She also has access to gas still in her flat.
Please help
Roz S
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