Hello
I only seem to post when I am somewhat stressed and I am sorry for that as I should give more input to such a helpfull site.
Anyway, help please.
About 10 days ago I arranged for my mum to go into a nusing home for 2 weeks. When it came to it I could'nt do it.Now I really must "bite the bullet". mum is booked in from monday for 2 weeks.I was told not to tell her too soon as she might get upset.
Question.
When and how should I tell her????
Things have got much more difficult recently.When she is not at "day care" it seems like she is wanting constant entertaining/attention. She has also started to forget to put her incontinence pads on after going to the loo, especially about 6am when she goes back to bed and so soaking sheets every morning.
She is getting "cross" with me and "vice versa"
I am triply, doubly, extra tired.
Advice please
I only seem to post when I am somewhat stressed and I am sorry for that as I should give more input to such a helpfull site.
Anyway, help please.
About 10 days ago I arranged for my mum to go into a nusing home for 2 weeks. When it came to it I could'nt do it.Now I really must "bite the bullet". mum is booked in from monday for 2 weeks.I was told not to tell her too soon as she might get upset.
Question.
When and how should I tell her????
Things have got much more difficult recently.When she is not at "day care" it seems like she is wanting constant entertaining/attention. She has also started to forget to put her incontinence pads on after going to the loo, especially about 6am when she goes back to bed and so soaking sheets every morning.
She is getting "cross" with me and "vice versa"
I am triply, doubly, extra tired.
Advice please