I am new to this site and am feeling overwhelmed. I am sure my 86 year old Mother has Dementia. It’s been a difficult two years my Dad had vascular dementia and died 18 months ago, then my Sister died unexpectedly in December. But since last October 2020) when Mum had had a ‘virus’ not Covid she had lost a lot of weight cries all the time and wants to die. Is really not in control of her emotions does not want to be on her own at night has breathlessness. She cannot find her words and is forgetting, losing things , I have spent a,it of time staying with her and am at the moment and have noticed a real deterioration in her condition. She will not go to Dr or get memory test, will not go for any respite I have power of Attorney for care and health. How do I get help for her and me. I am at breaking point and cannot cope with her mental and physical health needs. I have responsibilities at home re my husband and really cannot keep staying. But I am worried to leave her Also who determines Capacity and how do you proceed with moving forward if the person won’t co-operate.
Any advice greatly appreciated
Any advice greatly appreciated