You are strong @jennifer1967 , much stronger than you are aware of. (((((hugs))))while hes been out, i have made inroads to getting an bank once i spoke to a rare thing as a person. have to download the app. sorted now got to leave it a few days. im shaking. i put some music on loud but the anxiety levels are high so it shows that im doing the right thing. ive never felt so scared.
thank you @Susan11 ive got music on that relaxes him. he says it was a joke but im not laughing. asa soon as he came through the door, i saw the way he was. not helped as my oldest daughter walked past him and blanked him.Take care Jennifer . Keep out of his way as much as you can.
thank you @Susan11 i downloaded the app and filled in the details for my own account. it cant do it yet although the lady on the phone said 3 -4 days after i downloaded it. i probably need to phone at one point but i have to do it without him being here. its going to be a slow progress as is the clearing of the house as i have just got over being ill again. done under stairs and going into living room next. just trying to catch up on what i havent been able to do and have to pace myself to my back. definitely stressed as my eczema is now flaring up. i will keep goingHi Jennifer Hope you are feeling a bit better now. How are you getting on with the Bank account? I know it's very stressful for you at the moment.
You sound like you're doing really well. Take care.thank you @Susan11 i downloaded the app and filled in the details for my own account. it cant do it yet although the lady on the phone said 3 -4 days after i downloaded it. i probably need to phone at one point but i have to do it without him being here. its going to be a slow progress as is the clearing of the house as i have just got over being ill again. done under stairs and going into living room next. just trying to catch up on what i havent been able to do and have to pace myself to my back. definitely stressed as my eczema is now flaring up. i will keep going
morning @MaNaAk im doing my best, im learning with all the support im getting, im feeling im not on my own with this. ive never had to do anything like this before as ive been with my husband since i was 21
I admire you!morning @MaNaAk im doing my best, im learning with all the support im getting, im feeling im not on my own with this. ive never had to do anything like this before as ive been with my husband since i was 21
ive had both with sedation and not that bad but not that many years ago, i couldnt get a needle near him. now he doesnt mind but i think it might be his line in the sand. i would like him to have it but its his choice.I understand your husband's fear about the camera, but if anything is wrong wouldn't it be better to find out sooner rather than later?
I had an endoscopy two years ago and was offered sedation - which I took! It wasn't nearly as bad as I thought it would be. Sedation is available with a colonoscopy, too.