My husband has the chance of going to a Hospice for a course for Dementia sufferers ,once a week for 8 weeks for 5 hours. He is frightened to go anywhere on his own. How can I handle this? I would like him to go. He spends so long just sitting in his chair watching our dog or looking out of the window. He is 69 and I think he would enjoy the company. I cant really spend 5 hours waiting at the Hospice in case he needs me. He might decide that he is going home. I think if I stayed for a while , I might be able to pop out and then go back to pick him up .Should I book him a place and try it out.
Yes give it a try. I went with my O H to something that sounds similar and although It was difficult to even get him to go ( we were always late, and usually arrived as the group were going to have lunch ) we had a great time. I explained that he did not want to stay without me and they said that I could stay with him. I was the only one , the others dropped off there L O 's and had about 5hours free time to do what they wanted and they loved that ! I am so glad we went , I laughed so much and had a great time ,the people running It were great . They did talks for carers and we were offered various treatments ,I had a foot massage , It was wonderful and all free. The 'patients' were entertained , they had games , they had a tour of the gardens , singing, table games, and had someone with them at all times. I highly recommend it , they understand that everyone Is different and has different needs and they are happy to adapt to help.