Hi there
New to TP, my nan was diagnosed with dementia a year ago and it's been up and down. I live an hours drive away but visit her at least once a week, if not twice. I look after her remotely as best I can whilst working full time, I have power of attorney, I have carers going in regularly, someone from the Alzheimer's Society takes her out once a week, a link scheme volunteer pops in about 3 times a week and my mum visits every other week so she's not short of visitors. I manage her finances and take her to the majority of her medical appointments. Just recently, she's not been very nice to me. I'm not sure if it's the dementia (as the doctors say it's mild) but I think she's taken me for granted. I don't really feel like her granddaughter anymore, just someone who does stuff for her. I really want to talk to her about how she's making me feel but if she is not aware she's doing it, that will upset her but then do I just carry on feeling miserable? My mum and I don't get on that well so my Nan and I are a lot closer...or were.
Any advice or tips would be great.
New to TP, my nan was diagnosed with dementia a year ago and it's been up and down. I live an hours drive away but visit her at least once a week, if not twice. I look after her remotely as best I can whilst working full time, I have power of attorney, I have carers going in regularly, someone from the Alzheimer's Society takes her out once a week, a link scheme volunteer pops in about 3 times a week and my mum visits every other week so she's not short of visitors. I manage her finances and take her to the majority of her medical appointments. Just recently, she's not been very nice to me. I'm not sure if it's the dementia (as the doctors say it's mild) but I think she's taken me for granted. I don't really feel like her granddaughter anymore, just someone who does stuff for her. I really want to talk to her about how she's making me feel but if she is not aware she's doing it, that will upset her but then do I just carry on feeling miserable? My mum and I don't get on that well so my Nan and I are a lot closer...or were.
Any advice or tips would be great.