Hi All
Im new to this site but I guess I have something in common with a lot of you or I wouldn't be here. My Mum was diagnosed with Alzheimers towards the end of last year. I think that we all knew there was something wrong (I am part of a big family) but probably thought that if it wasn't said by a doctor then it wasn't true.
I have read on here about people feeling guilty for one reason or another and I know what people mean. I live 200+ miles from my parents and don't get to see them as much as I should and I have gone through the feelings of guilt because of this.
Because I don't get to see my parents as often as maybe I should, it was quite a while before the "changes" in Mum were really noticable to me. I had been told by my sisters of things that Mum had done but whenever I saw her I didn't see any of this. But on one trip it hit me that Mum really was unwell, she went to make me a cup of tea and when she got into the kitchen she called my Dad. In the 2 minutes it took her to get to the kitchen she had forgotten who I was and what she was doing in the kitchen and this really got to me. By the tme she came back into the living room she was fine again as if nothing had changed.
Just recently my Mum had another assesment and they told my Dad that she had got worse because she had gone down 1 point, what does this mean? Nobody has explained this to him.
Also, I have been told by my sisters that my Mum has lost a lot of weight and I will really notice a difference when I see her next. For 1 reason or another I have not been able to get there since christmas.
Whilst we were all growing up my Mum was never one for staying in bed, even when she was "sick". Just lately though she has started staying in bed most of the day saying that "her legs hurt". Whatever my Dad says to her or does she will not get up sometimes 'til 5pm. Is this sort of thing a normal part of the illness?
Sorry if I have rambled on a bit but I do think that it is soetimes easier to "speak" to total strangers especially if they have gone through the same sort of things.
Thanks
Jon
Im new to this site but I guess I have something in common with a lot of you or I wouldn't be here. My Mum was diagnosed with Alzheimers towards the end of last year. I think that we all knew there was something wrong (I am part of a big family) but probably thought that if it wasn't said by a doctor then it wasn't true.
I have read on here about people feeling guilty for one reason or another and I know what people mean. I live 200+ miles from my parents and don't get to see them as much as I should and I have gone through the feelings of guilt because of this.
Because I don't get to see my parents as often as maybe I should, it was quite a while before the "changes" in Mum were really noticable to me. I had been told by my sisters of things that Mum had done but whenever I saw her I didn't see any of this. But on one trip it hit me that Mum really was unwell, she went to make me a cup of tea and when she got into the kitchen she called my Dad. In the 2 minutes it took her to get to the kitchen she had forgotten who I was and what she was doing in the kitchen and this really got to me. By the tme she came back into the living room she was fine again as if nothing had changed.
Just recently my Mum had another assesment and they told my Dad that she had got worse because she had gone down 1 point, what does this mean? Nobody has explained this to him.
Also, I have been told by my sisters that my Mum has lost a lot of weight and I will really notice a difference when I see her next. For 1 reason or another I have not been able to get there since christmas.
Whilst we were all growing up my Mum was never one for staying in bed, even when she was "sick". Just lately though she has started staying in bed most of the day saying that "her legs hurt". Whatever my Dad says to her or does she will not get up sometimes 'til 5pm. Is this sort of thing a normal part of the illness?
Sorry if I have rambled on a bit but I do think that it is soetimes easier to "speak" to total strangers especially if they have gone through the same sort of things.
Thanks
Jon