My husband has dementia and has been in respite care in Avery good place. Earlier this year I was truggling and our doctor advised me it was time for full time care, I contacted his cpn nurse and told her, I also can't acted the home and they were happy to have him, I met with my step son who is 51 and explained things to him, I was appointed a social worker who met me and my husband for the first time. When she met us she explained that the step son had contacted social services to say that he didn't want my husband in there as it was 30 minutes drive away, there was a interested parties meeting which was very distressing. Anyway the outcome was that even though my husband doesn't have capacity it's his human right to live where he wants and the question they asked him was 'DO YOU WANT TO LIVE ( the name of our town ) OR HERE? Of course he says the name of our town, he can't dress himself correctly in the morning so how can he decide this. I have been told I have to find somewhere else for him even though the social says the care will not be as good. I am making myself ill over this, has anyone had a same or similar experience to this?