I am a fulltime carer for my mom who has just had an ilestomy after having bowel surgery. for diverticulitis disease which is why she had to have the operation. I have found the stoma and pouchchanging terrifying. I go to pieces when I have to change it and cut out the template. My sister does it but I need to find out how to conquer my fear of it. We have had some leaks and once it came off completely mom must have dislodged it during the night. Mom does move a lot at night and tends to sleep on the side her stoma is on.
Does anyone else suffer with this anxiety as I would value some advice for mom's sake as well as she can see my dislike of it.
I hate being her carer because of it, it is making me really resent the caring role I have.
Does anyone else suffer with this anxiety as I would value some advice for mom's sake as well as she can see my dislike of it.
I hate being her carer because of it, it is making me really resent the caring role I have.