Hi my dad lives with my mother and brother.
He has what they say mild vascular dementia, and keeps suffering with pneumonia and keeps getting hospitalised for it. On Xmas eve he started with loss of control of his bowls and it was admitted in hospital and is still there.
My question is what is the best way I can get help for my mam?my mam can’t cope with the incontinence it’s too difficult for her to manage. Ideally she would like someone to shower him and maybe take him out?
She gets no help with benefits etc.
thank you
He has what they say mild vascular dementia, and keeps suffering with pneumonia and keeps getting hospitalised for it. On Xmas eve he started with loss of control of his bowls and it was admitted in hospital and is still there.
My question is what is the best way I can get help for my mam?my mam can’t cope with the incontinence it’s too difficult for her to manage. Ideally she would like someone to shower him and maybe take him out?
She gets no help with benefits etc.
thank you