Good evening all
I am looking for a wee bit of advice please. mum went into what we thought was a wonderful nursing home just under 2 weeks ago.
The 3 times I have visited her she has been dirty looking with greasy hair and one occasion she looked as if she had slept in her clothes. (it turned out she had been wearing them for 3 days non stop). I obviously mentioned this to the staff and they said they cant force mum to wash or change her clothes but they would try to talk her round.
Yesterday when I saw her she had been washed (her hair was clean) but her teeth were absolutely disgusting and full of tartar. I again said to staff about mums teeth. I did try myself to ask mum to brush her teeth but she went off her head and wasn't pleased with me to say the least.
Is hygiene and cleanliness not part of looking after someone in a nursing home. I would think at £850 per week they could at least attempt to wash mum.
Mum is still on a 4 week trial and my 2 brothers and my sister are starting to be concerned although the staff are lovely and mum seems to have settled in ok.
Am I being concerned over something trivial or should I worry?
Thanks once again for your help.
Linda x
I am looking for a wee bit of advice please. mum went into what we thought was a wonderful nursing home just under 2 weeks ago.
The 3 times I have visited her she has been dirty looking with greasy hair and one occasion she looked as if she had slept in her clothes. (it turned out she had been wearing them for 3 days non stop). I obviously mentioned this to the staff and they said they cant force mum to wash or change her clothes but they would try to talk her round.
Yesterday when I saw her she had been washed (her hair was clean) but her teeth were absolutely disgusting and full of tartar. I again said to staff about mums teeth. I did try myself to ask mum to brush her teeth but she went off her head and wasn't pleased with me to say the least.
Is hygiene and cleanliness not part of looking after someone in a nursing home. I would think at £850 per week they could at least attempt to wash mum.
Mum is still on a 4 week trial and my 2 brothers and my sister are starting to be concerned although the staff are lovely and mum seems to have settled in ok.
Am I being concerned over something trivial or should I worry?
Thanks once again for your help.
Linda x