Can anyone advise the best way to get my mom to the doctors, without upsetting her, I have asked her see her doctor as she was not herself, she made an appointment then cancelled it. As a family we have notice a decline in mom's behaviour, all of a sudden turning agressive, loss of memory, forgetting what she was going to say next, becoming very vacant, getting worse in the last 6 month. My father will not suggest the doctors as he is afraid of her reaction to him. Mom says her forgetfulness is due to her age (65). Any suggestions really appreciated.