Hello all - would really appreciate some urgent advice. My mum was diagnosed with Alzheimers 6 years ago and Dad has been caring for her, although he is not in the best of health. However, over the last year she has been declining both in health and well-being, as she has become very agitated and frequently crying. Mum (82) does visit Day Centres twice a week, which gives Dad (84) a rest. However, we had a family dinner recently where Dad broke down in tears and finally admitted he couldn't cope, so we agreed that the best place for mum would be in a care home. However, over the last 4 weeks, I have been hitting my head against a brick wall with mum's social workers and all they can offer me is respite care, perhaps in time. I have kept Dad in the loop, but yesterday he just threatened to walk out and not come back.
Can anyone out there offer any advice on how I can fast track my mum into a care home or at least get the social workers to understand what is happening. I just feel that whilst my Dad is caring for my Mum and she also has a daughter looking out for her (ie me, who works full time and has 3 kids) they won't take action..... help!!
Thanking you all in advance.
Sandy
Can anyone out there offer any advice on how I can fast track my mum into a care home or at least get the social workers to understand what is happening. I just feel that whilst my Dad is caring for my Mum and she also has a daughter looking out for her (ie me, who works full time and has 3 kids) they won't take action..... help!!
Thanking you all in advance.
Sandy