Hello,
I am looking for advice as I have a difficult decision to make....
My dad has advanced mixed dementia, Alzheimer’s and Vascular dementia. He’s been in the hospital almost a month as he had a fall and was diagnosed with heart failure and some renal issues. Since being in the hospital, he has tested positive for Covid, developed delirium, and stopped eating and drinking. This has all been so hard as we haven’t been able to see him.
Last Tuesday, the doctor told my mum and I that he only had weeks left and was on a fast track chc discharge to a nursing home.
My problem is that I live in the US. I’m supposed to leave the the UK on Wednesday. But I don’t want to leave and my mum have to face all this by herself. I’m also worried that I wouldn’t be able to get back to the UK fast enough if my dad deteriorated quickly. A nurse told me that she would prolong her stay if she was me. But any advice would be very much appreciated.
Thank you!
I am looking for advice as I have a difficult decision to make....
My dad has advanced mixed dementia, Alzheimer’s and Vascular dementia. He’s been in the hospital almost a month as he had a fall and was diagnosed with heart failure and some renal issues. Since being in the hospital, he has tested positive for Covid, developed delirium, and stopped eating and drinking. This has all been so hard as we haven’t been able to see him.
Last Tuesday, the doctor told my mum and I that he only had weeks left and was on a fast track chc discharge to a nursing home.
My problem is that I live in the US. I’m supposed to leave the the UK on Wednesday. But I don’t want to leave and my mum have to face all this by herself. I’m also worried that I wouldn’t be able to get back to the UK fast enough if my dad deteriorated quickly. A nurse told me that she would prolong her stay if she was me. But any advice would be very much appreciated.
Thank you!