Went to see mum today she’s gone downhill in the last few weeks Sleeping most of the time I’m there was hallucinating the other day and today She was really distant when I was talking to her she just stared right through me and when I did ask her something it was one word answers
I have read all the advice and what to expect in the end stage but seeing it happening in front of your eyes is completely different I could also go in next time and she could be back on an up again
It’s the emotions that go with it too you prepare yourself for the worst and she is constantly on my mind
She has no quality of life although the care home is really good and she is well looked after
How do you cope with this until the end happens ?
Thanks
I have read all the advice and what to expect in the end stage but seeing it happening in front of your eyes is completely different I could also go in next time and she could be back on an up again
It’s the emotions that go with it too you prepare yourself for the worst and she is constantly on my mind
She has no quality of life although the care home is really good and she is well looked after
How do you cope with this until the end happens ?
Thanks