Please can anyone suggest ways to help my Father in Law adjust to life in a care home. He's been there a month following a hospital stay and previously he lived alone wasn't coping but refused all help. He did agree to go into the home but now says it isn't the right solution (there isn't any other alternative). He's very confused, endlessly pressing his buzzer, is obsessed with going to the toilet and can't remember eating meals etc. We can see life in the home baffles him and his life has turned upside down. He can't verbalise exactly what he does want but I suspect it's that he'd like everything to return to "normal" which it can't. Has anyone any practical tips on helping him to settle and how to talk with hime as I'm finding myself at a loss as to what to say. Thank you