has anybody been accused of hurting the person they care for .my father in law had a fall this morning after tripping over the straps on his bed I think as he was led at the bottom of the bed and the straps were sticking out in the middle of the floor.i got him up dressed him checked him and gave him his breakfast when my husband came in he told us the girl had done but I am the only girl here he is in the latter stages of dementia