My mum was diagnosed with vascular dementia just over eighteen months ago and I moved her nearer to me into warden assisted housing a few months after that. Everything seemed fine up until 12 months ago when she started accusing me of stealing things from her. This has got progressively worse and I think she has reported me to the police now. On the whole she seems fine and gets herself into town on a daily basis. I see her most weekday mornings and take her out once a week and bring her back for tea. All the while she is fine just a bit forgetful. My sister moved near me first around the same time. I was always th favourite as a child so this seems even more hurtful to me. I felt physically sick yesterday when i was at hers and the police phoned to arrange an appointment for this morning. I left shortly afterwards. she constantly says to my sister and nephew that I'm going in at night and stealing from her. My mother has always been a difficult person and manipulative and other things . The move for them all to come live near me sounded like the perfect solution but i'm struggling with these accusations as she doesnt do them to my face now as she did in the beginning. I havent been round today because I couldnt face her. Sorry for the long post its my first time.