Like my mum. She has these little accidents, just can't seem to get to toilet in time. I put a commode in her bedroom a while back, it is so close to her bed and this is what she uses in the morning, sometimes a few little accidents, but not as bad as it used to be. I also wake her around midnight to use it. During the day I remind mum to go to toilet every 2 hours plus half hour after a drink, I hang around till she starts to do something, then I leave her to it. I am just trying to put off the time when pads will have to be worn all the time.