Any advice gratefully received. Mum has vascular dementia and has daily carers but is increasingly unaccepting of their care. At the moment this is limited to preparing food for her and checking her meds but she is increasing refusing the food they prepare, and increasingly demanding that I and my sister do everything. She can be very rude and unpleasent to them and she also becomes more lonely and unhappy. One of us sees her every day, but she is unable to distract herself with TV Radio or reading and will only respond positively to family care. Is there anything we can do to get her to accept the care of others?