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My older sister has nothing whatsoever to do with my mother. To be fair this isnt particularly linked to mums dementia, their relationship broke down a long time ago , and she sees no reason why the current situation should lead to any sort of reconciliation.
While in some ways I feel bitterly resenful thats it is I that has ended up having to deal with all of this, in other ways I admire her for being able to choose to simply walk away seemingly with out a back ward glance.
sometimes I think it would take the pressures off a bit is she and her four adult children made an occasional visit, but as mum also has made it clear she doesnt want to see her it doesnt seem very likely!
My older sister has nothing whatsoever to do with my mother. To be fair this isnt particularly linked to mums dementia, their relationship broke down a long time ago , and she sees no reason why the current situation should lead to any sort of reconciliation.
While in some ways I feel bitterly resenful thats it is I that has ended up having to deal with all of this, in other ways I admire her for being able to choose to simply walk away seemingly with out a back ward glance.
sometimes I think it would take the pressures off a bit is she and her four adult children made an occasional visit, but as mum also has made it clear she doesnt want to see her it doesnt seem very likely!