My Dad lived with my husband and I for 13 years after my mum died suddenly. Last year he was diagnosed with Alzheimers disease and this year with terminal cancer. He moved into a nursing home last Saturday because we couldn't cope any longer. He has settled in well but because of the corona virus we can't get into see him. I feel as if I have abandoned him even though he doesn't really know who I am. I am just praying we get to see him again when the lock down is lifted. The home sent pictures of him by email and he didn't have his teeth in or his glasses on and someone else's jumper on and that really upset me. I am a carer in a nursing home so I know what a difficult job they do, but when it comes to your family it is completely different. I am so grateful he is being looked after and he does seem happy. Sorry I just needed to get this off my chest. Xx