Hi Mich
Welcome to TP
This is probably the friendliest and most supportive board I have ever posted on. Although we're all in different situations, with some of us caring full-time for parents or spouses, and others (like me) caring, but not on a day to day basis, we're all united (unfortunately) in this awful journey. If you have any specific questions or concerns, or if you simply want to rant, or alternatively, talki about something good that's happened, just post away.
It's interesting what you say about the singing. My Mother, who has had several strokes, has retained her memory for music far better than any other aspect of her life. MY DD, who has studied the way memory works at college tells me that the part of the brain that deals with music is quite separate from most other functions, and that definitely seems to be true in Mummy's case - she may not remember if I'm her daughter or her sister, but she can always find an appropriate song for a given situation. Also, she can remember situations (such as concerts) when music is involved, even though she has almost total short-term memory loss.
Jennifer