Well it's a year today since Dad died. A long year . Mum had to go into care and yes she's settled of a sort.....she had no choice...and yes I do feel l dumped her even though I had no choice.i see her every two weeks. Their home is almost sold ....we should complete this week but Mum doesn't know. The hardest year of my life. But at the other end of the spectrum I have a new Grandson. He is absolutely adorable and I see him as often as I can. He fills my heart with joy. It's like riding a rollercoaster.