Feel quite deflated today Went to see my Mum at 4pm. It was bright sunshine. The curtains were drawn and the door locked. I went in wondering what I was going to find. The doors were closed. Went in the bedroom and my mum was sitting half in the bed, underwear on and quite clearly ready for bed - she doesnt wear a nightdress. She thought I was that bloke from down the road. Then we had an odd conversation about this man, so I said he had moved away with his job. Then the conversation went on about relatives who had died but she had been talking to them and they had been to see her. She asked if I had one of them living with me. It was quite relentless and she then said it would be bright until 11pm. I said it would start getting dark about 8 but she was insistent that it would be daylight. She then said she would be glad to go home! I asked where that was and it was were she had lived as a child. I explained that where she was now is her home and that she had chosen it with my Dad. She looked really confused. Is this sundowning? She wasnt upset or agitated just really confused. Dont think I helped much as I was tired after a very busy week at work and just wanted to get home and now I feel bad about that too