Hi
I'm wondering if anyone has experienced this situation with their PWD.
My mother has mixed dementia, in the early- mid stages.
The history to all this is that she felt aggrieved by a neighbour a couple of years ago regarding the state of her lawn, that was it! That memory has then snowballed and took on a life of it's own in her own head!
Next, she said that the fence that we erected, because the old one had fallen down, was to keep the neighbour out and to stop her climbing over to get her. Then came the accusations of physical assault, now at least 4, the last one of which was supposed to have rendered my mother unconscious (while I was there!).
Then my mother said she had witnessed this neighbour being restrained and taken away to a secure unit to have injections! Now she is telling everyone she sees that the neighbour has been in prison.
I don't know how to handle it all. I can't agree with her that this all must have happened and I don't want to argue. With not wanting to talk about it, my mother thinks I'm siding with the neighbour!
The neighbour by the way is a lovely woman in her 70s who lives with her husband and has been very kind.
My mother is about to start Memantine in a couple of weeks. She can't take Aricept because of heart issues. Will this help? I'm becoming increasingly concerned by the situation.
Any comments appreciated!
I'm wondering if anyone has experienced this situation with their PWD.
My mother has mixed dementia, in the early- mid stages.
The history to all this is that she felt aggrieved by a neighbour a couple of years ago regarding the state of her lawn, that was it! That memory has then snowballed and took on a life of it's own in her own head!
Next, she said that the fence that we erected, because the old one had fallen down, was to keep the neighbour out and to stop her climbing over to get her. Then came the accusations of physical assault, now at least 4, the last one of which was supposed to have rendered my mother unconscious (while I was there!).
Then my mother said she had witnessed this neighbour being restrained and taken away to a secure unit to have injections! Now she is telling everyone she sees that the neighbour has been in prison.
I don't know how to handle it all. I can't agree with her that this all must have happened and I don't want to argue. With not wanting to talk about it, my mother thinks I'm siding with the neighbour!
The neighbour by the way is a lovely woman in her 70s who lives with her husband and has been very kind.
My mother is about to start Memantine in a couple of weeks. She can't take Aricept because of heart issues. Will this help? I'm becoming increasingly concerned by the situation.
Any comments appreciated!