Today we went to visit dad who is still having difficulty settling in.....says he hates it and will we please get him out etc etc.
Mostly I believe it is just the settling in period to his new home, but sometimes he says things that make sense...like, "When I was coming here I saw lots of countryside so I thought it would be a nice place. I liked it for the first couple of days, but not now. Its not as nice as I thought it was going to be"
All this makes sense...we did travel through countryside and he commented on how nice it was. He did settle well for 2 days, saying how lovely it was, but now says he doesn't like it. He can't say why and the staff say he is fine when we are not there (After the aggressive incident!!). Even some of the other residents (Only 4 have AD, the other 11 are simply elderly) say he is a gentleman...very quiet most of the time, but polite.
Do you think he really hates it or shall we stick it out.
It is a nice home....we chose it carefully and I know some of the staff.
Anyway, today we took him a box of Quality Street and some dominos. We played a few games (even though he needed help to play each round !!). We laughed and chatted and before we left he said, "I really enjoyed that..... but we can still get out of here can't we ?"
Hey Ho !!!
Jarnee
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Mostly I believe it is just the settling in period to his new home, but sometimes he says things that make sense...like, "When I was coming here I saw lots of countryside so I thought it would be a nice place. I liked it for the first couple of days, but not now. Its not as nice as I thought it was going to be"
All this makes sense...we did travel through countryside and he commented on how nice it was. He did settle well for 2 days, saying how lovely it was, but now says he doesn't like it. He can't say why and the staff say he is fine when we are not there (After the aggressive incident!!). Even some of the other residents (Only 4 have AD, the other 11 are simply elderly) say he is a gentleman...very quiet most of the time, but polite.
Do you think he really hates it or shall we stick it out.
It is a nice home....we chose it carefully and I know some of the staff.
Anyway, today we took him a box of Quality Street and some dominos. We played a few games (even though he needed help to play each round !!). We laughed and chatted and before we left he said, "I really enjoyed that..... but we can still get out of here can't we ?"
Hey Ho !!!
Jarnee
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