Hello,
My wife and I have been together for 54 years. I retired from working 7 years ago in 2011 and my wife 8 years ago. We planned to have lots of holidays and activities together. All was well for the first year but then I noticed that she was forgetting simple things like where she had parked her car or where we were meeting. Tests followed and 5 years ago she was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s.
Whilst there has been a slow but steady decline in her mental (and lately physical abilities) we continued to enjoy foreign holidays up to and including 2018. Supervising holidays and even trips out at home have however become more and more challenging for me and I think 2019 will see an end to our travels.
Our doctor and specialists say the deterioration in my wife’s abilities is inevitable but fortunately they supply pills that cope with her variable mood swings, delusions and sleepless nights etc.,
My feeling is that I am standing on a railway platform with my dear wife leaning out of a carriage window smiling, waving and saying goodbye as the train pulls out of the station at the speed of 1 foot a day. Right now, she is at the end of the platform, still in sight but almost unable to hear me anymore. Thankfully she is oblivious that the train won’t be coming back but for me it is mental torture.
My wife and I have been together for 54 years. I retired from working 7 years ago in 2011 and my wife 8 years ago. We planned to have lots of holidays and activities together. All was well for the first year but then I noticed that she was forgetting simple things like where she had parked her car or where we were meeting. Tests followed and 5 years ago she was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s.
Whilst there has been a slow but steady decline in her mental (and lately physical abilities) we continued to enjoy foreign holidays up to and including 2018. Supervising holidays and even trips out at home have however become more and more challenging for me and I think 2019 will see an end to our travels.
Our doctor and specialists say the deterioration in my wife’s abilities is inevitable but fortunately they supply pills that cope with her variable mood swings, delusions and sleepless nights etc.,
My feeling is that I am standing on a railway platform with my dear wife leaning out of a carriage window smiling, waving and saying goodbye as the train pulls out of the station at the speed of 1 foot a day. Right now, she is at the end of the platform, still in sight but almost unable to hear me anymore. Thankfully she is oblivious that the train won’t be coming back but for me it is mental torture.