Dear Sylvia
I think we can all relate to that sadness. It starts when the first symptoms appear, and we realise that part of our relationship is lost. And that parts will continue to be lost, for as long as it takes, until there is no relationship left.
TP is wonderful, but we are all still alone, because no-one can truly enter into our relationship, or our grief.
I can say to you, be glad of the quiet times, because I'd give anything to have them back. But I know that doesn't help, because when I was in your situation I also was sad that so much had been lost.
It's a long, long grieving process, and the end -- well, do we really want the end?
I'm sad with you.
Love and hugs,