Some of you will realise my husband fell some 7 weeks ago - broke his ribs. For normal healthy people this is not a major problem, just painful. For D it was a major trauma and since then his mobility and mental ability have deteriorated enormously.
He is now in rehab. What a roller coaster of worries I have had. ? DVT, Cellutis, sickness. Now they are investigating a possible UTI.
Two weeks ago I was warned he may not come home again. Now I am planning his return in 2/3 weeks - awaiting a review with OT, Social Worker and Physios - just to make sure I can cope.
The support seems to be dressing am and undressing pm!! The rest of the time is for me to handle - except maybe a day at centre.
I have sussed out a private nurse - hopefully to give me some hours of freedom during the week. I just hope I can cope with sleepless nights - there seems to be little or no help for that around here.
During visiting time today he seemed so depressed and is just longing to be in his own home. Hopefully in 2/3 weeks his wish will be granted. Apart from work with physios and general rehab I need to get builder out of the way (level access shower should be started next Monday).
I hope this is not too boring but I am sure others will identify with similar problems. Comments welcomed as it is good not to feel alone in this.
Best wishes all Jan
He is now in rehab. What a roller coaster of worries I have had. ? DVT, Cellutis, sickness. Now they are investigating a possible UTI.
Two weeks ago I was warned he may not come home again. Now I am planning his return in 2/3 weeks - awaiting a review with OT, Social Worker and Physios - just to make sure I can cope.
The support seems to be dressing am and undressing pm!! The rest of the time is for me to handle - except maybe a day at centre.
I have sussed out a private nurse - hopefully to give me some hours of freedom during the week. I just hope I can cope with sleepless nights - there seems to be little or no help for that around here.
During visiting time today he seemed so depressed and is just longing to be in his own home. Hopefully in 2/3 weeks his wish will be granted. Apart from work with physios and general rehab I need to get builder out of the way (level access shower should be started next Monday).
I hope this is not too boring but I am sure others will identify with similar problems. Comments welcomed as it is good not to feel alone in this.
Best wishes all Jan